{"id":11540,"date":"2026-07-01T20:58:37","date_gmt":"2026-07-02T00:58:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.teenstotsandeverythinginbetween.com\/?p=11540"},"modified":"2026-07-01T20:58:37","modified_gmt":"2026-07-02T00:58:37","slug":"tuesday-thoughts-18","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.teenstotsandeverythinginbetween.com\/?p=11540","title":{"rendered":"Tuesday Thoughts"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Today was unfair and that is the only way I can describe it.\u00a0 I am always a little hesitant to share about things related to our foster because I want to respect his identify\/his story and am also afraid of doing something that may be a reason for his removal from our home.\u00a0 \u00a0But today, I am going to share facts and those are just that facts.\u00a0 Visits are every other week with this being a week I expected a visit however, the visit schedule is usually made monthly so with July 1st on a Wednesday and Friday a holiday I was unsure of what would happen.<\/p>\n<p>Yesterday, Tuesday June 30th at 10:36am, I was informed that a visit was scheduled for today. I was asked if I could provide transportation.\u00a0 \u00a0I declined politely because the options for me included driving for 3 hours to drop him off and pick him up or driving 1.5 hours and sitting in a parking lot for 2 hours in a car.\u00a0 \u00a0Around 6pm, the timing was confirmed and he would be picked up at 11 am.\u00a0 I told Easton and we wrote the schedule on the board.<\/p>\n<p>This morning, he was up bright and early!\u00a0 He even finished his school work before 8am. Today I 10:03 am, I received a text that the visits had been cancelled and would be rescheduled.<\/p>\n<p>As a grown adult who has been a mother for over 30 years, I was in tears, how unfair this feels.\u00a0 I asked for an explanation to give to him but never received any response.\u00a0 I am left to explain to a six year old things I don&#8217;t understand!\u00a0 This is unfair and one of the concrete examples as to what is wrong with the Foster Care system!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Today was unfair and that is the only way I can describe it.\u00a0 I am always a little hesitant to share about things related to our foster because I want to respect his identify\/his story and am also afraid of &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.teenstotsandeverythinginbetween.com\/?p=11540\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[65],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11540","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-foster-care"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p2ySyX-308","jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.teenstotsandeverythinginbetween.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11540","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.teenstotsandeverythinginbetween.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.teenstotsandeverythinginbetween.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.teenstotsandeverythinginbetween.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.teenstotsandeverythinginbetween.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=11540"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/www.teenstotsandeverythinginbetween.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11540\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":11541,"href":"http:\/\/www.teenstotsandeverythinginbetween.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11540\/revisions\/11541"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.teenstotsandeverythinginbetween.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=11540"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.teenstotsandeverythinginbetween.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=11540"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.teenstotsandeverythinginbetween.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=11540"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}