Category Archives: Life
Thanksgiving- 02/21/2016
Our Sunday School lesson this morning was from Priscilla Shirer, The Armor of God. I was reminded, ok slapped up side the head, with the truth about thanksgiving. I am so abundantly blessed, that I should never have to think about the things I am thankful for but they should bubble up all during the day. With all things, practice never hurt so here is a short list for today.
- The awesome ladies in my class, who are not afraid to be real and who share experience and the idea that we are all sisters of the King.
- My new van, which has a nail in the tire but is still driving without any weird movements.
- A husband, who is not only available to take the above van to get it fix bright and early Monday morning but who will also fill it with gas before exchanging it for his older van while I am working.
- A warm house with an abundance of food and drink. We talked about our first world problems at lunch today.
- A job, I enjoy and feel allows me to make a difference, hopefully a positive difference in at least one person’s life daily.
- An unexpected free weekend, which allowed me to catch up on several different items and still enjoy some downtime today.
- Friends both in real life and on social media who keep me accountable.
Random Thoughts Tuesday 2/16
We decided to change out the window and door cases with our kitchen remodel. What we discovered is that there was no insulation around the windows. I purchased two cans of foam which is the yellow you see above.
All three of the kids got “Olafs” for a special Valentine gift. They are a huge hit. I was really good at keeping these hidden.
Kendall enjoyed the circus and even more so she enjoyed the special time with her big sister. Do you think they look alike?
Finally, I have learned how to fix Lily’s hair for cheerleading and it stays up! It does take close to an hour to complete but at least it works.
5 Things Friday 02/12/2016
- Our menu plan this week has consisted of leftovers. Monday- wing and snacks. Wednesday- Sandwich and chips, Thursday- pick your left over, Friday- Spam and mac and cheese. Saturday-left over soup. The kids have enjoyed donuts for breakfast 2 days and we all ate leftover this morning.
- Kendall is spending tomorrow with Amanda, plans include the circus and a art workshop.
- The weather is COLD and we are suppose to receive snow on Monday. I am hopefully for the snow that will give me an extra day to paint in the kitchen.
- I am finally see a vision of the new kitchen and simple is working well.
- Budget wise this month is going to be tight but so far I think we will be under budget with both gas and groceries.
Remolding the Kitchen
I decided during the month of December that our kitchen was simply too small and after some discussion with Matt, decide that we would begin to tackle this huge project. I posted on Facebook that the anticipated time line for total completion of this project was 2 years. I have had several questions as to why it is going to take so long, I decided to lay out our anticipated time line for you today and to also discuss why this is such a complex project.
I honestly think it will be 2 years or longer before we sit in “our new dream kitchen.” There are few reason for this. First is money, we do not want to go into debit for this remodeling project and with the loss of several of Matt’s websites at the end of the year, we really don’t have any extra to spend on the project. Reason number 2- time. Matt and I along with some help from friends will be completing all the work. The problem is that we also have 3 small kids and 2 big kids that each have schedules and expectations of us. The next reason sounds silly but it is the truth and ties in to both of the other reasons I have mention, I am having a hard time, trying to decide on themes and colors. Finally, I like a orderly house and can not stand to live in a construction zone for longer than a week or so at a time.
Now on to the fun stuff, stages of remodeling: 1.Wall Destruction. 2. New sink and Dishwasher 3. Painting/New cabinets. 4. New Floor.
We are about 90% finished with the first stage. The wall has been removed and the electric wires have been relocated. We added 12 recess lighting cans to add light in both the new kitchen and out in our living room. The ceiling was scrapped and painted. We have decided to install a beam to make the transition between the two rooms, which needs to be completed. Finally we have to remove the old baseboard heater. My goal is have this step complete by February 21st.
The second step includes several major decisions about colors and style of sink, faucet and dishwasher. We have been given a counter top which reduces the overall expense so we will start making decisions and purchasing the new items . The walls will be painted in this step along with new window facings and new molding around the ceilings. The Goal for completion of this step is end of March.
Stage three is by one of the most labor intense steps. We will first repaint and repair all the upper cabinets in addition to adding a shelf around the top of the cabinets to provide additional store space and add function to a “dead space.” We will have to replace all the lower cabinets and may add additional cabinets if we can afford and decide it would be beneifical. I have already pick out a new back splash to be add as well. My goal is to complete the cabinet repainting and have the back splash installed by the end of May. Based on our current financial situation this will most likely be the stopping point of the remodeling. The purchase of new cabinets will be placed on hold until we can decide on what we want and can afford to make this large purchase. I have an estimated budget of $1000 for lower cabinets. I also have an additional $2000 budget for the new “bar area” which includes replacing our current countertops as well. My estimate for the completion of this items is next February.
Stage 4- New floor is approximately 18-24 months away due to the huge expense of both time and money that will be involved. In addition, this decision has already been the most discussed and hardest one to make so that may also add to the length of time it will take.
Wordless Wednesday – The Wall Come Falling Down
Random Thoughts Tuesday – 1/26/2016
- The snow has pretty much kept all spending to a minimum for the past week. Although I am starting to get the itch to start purchasing things for gardening and definitely want to get started on our kitchen remodel both sooner rather than later. My goal is to last the final week of the January Money diet.
- I have officially decided to work with monthly menu planning this year. I am going to give it a good years try and see if it reduces my grocery budget overall. It has worked really well for January and looks the same for February.
- I have not even begun to work on my income taxes yet, this is officially the latest I have done this in recent memory. I am now going to wait on the final three official piece of paperwork before even opening a program. I have all the numbers I need but just decided at this point, why not wait.
- I am finally starting to see some positive aspects of Windows 10 after a full weeks use. One of my biggest overall complaints is that it does not allow me to print a copy of my calendar.
- My Sunday school class is completing Priscilla Shirer study called “The Armor of God.” I can honestly say I am learning a lot and it is most definitely my favorite study I have completed.
- I feel really good about the progress I have made toward my goals this month except for one.
5 Things Friday
- Today was my first official paid Snow Day EVER! I am so thankful because worse than snow is the solid sheet of ice that currently covers our road.
- I was able to clean out the playroom, and re-organize Zach’s room. He is able to play with all his toys and has a spot to return each. I am so excited as this also puts us closer to beginning our kitchen remodel. I manage to move reduce and reuse everything today so the total cost of this is ZERO.
- After spending most of the day cleaning and organizing we had a family game night. The little kids are now old enough to play UNO. Zach had a hard time at first because he did not win but even asked to play again at bedtime.
- The kids have been out of school at home for a solid week now. Monday was a holiday, Tuesday and Wednesday were scheduled teacher work days,Thursday and Friday, school was cancelled due to the weather.
- This week is also rare in the fact that we have only had cheerleading one night and don’t have a competition to go to this weekend. I know this is probably the last time this happens till April.
January Money Diet Update
I am not surprised at all to say that several thing have occurred this month that I did not originally think about or plan for. Fortunately, we have adapted and managed to spend as little as possible. One of the bigger things that has happen is the sudden dramatic weather change that has brought us temperature not rising above freezing for several days in a row. I discovered that we had a significant draft in our living room. We were able to purchase and reduce this draft for around $20 but this was totally unplanned. Next up was a computer problem, we ended up purchasing a new operating system for one of our computers which was $130 but in addition after spending several hours working on and around this problem, Matt and I both needed a mental break and headed to Cracker Barrel for Dinner. I am honestly glad we did because after coming home it took another 3 hours to get the computer back to a workable state. I am really enjoying this diet challenge because it allows us to stop and thing before spending, even if we decide to spend the money. Now on to more positive news.
1. Grocery spending of $200 or less- Currently I have spent $168 after both a trip to Costco and Aldi. I am so excited by this number. I don’t see any reason we can not stay in our goal for the month. We also went ahead today and did a rough menu plan for the month of February. I can see that we should be able to maintain a low budget of $400 or less for February!
2. Challenge #1– Give away 31 things- I have a box of kids clothing already packed and have a couple of options. I am going to make sure this box is gone before the end of the month.
3.Challenge #2– Figure your Net Worth- I did not complete this totally simply because this number has no meaning to me at this point. What I have done is make a spreadsheet to keep up with real number as I work at paying off credit cards and other debits. I also know the value of all our vehicles. Finally today, I set up access to my retirement account so I can at least glance at it from time to time. As an interesting side note, it has lost over a thousand dollars in January already.
4. Challenge # 3- Do something to earn an extra $25 or more this month.– I have several items listed on Facebook for sale right now.
5. Challenge #4- Reduce at least one expense– I stay pretty on top of this to begin with. But I was able to get a $14 credit on our cable bill due, this month and finally think we have that bill straighten out. I do need to check on our cellphone bill to make sure it is as low as possible.
Overall I am happy with our progress and this challenge is definitely helping me to find some money that can be saved.
5 Things Friday 01/08/2016
- The weather has turned cold here really quickly. On Christmas day it was 74* and today the high was 46*. I really dislike cold.
- Kendall is by far my coldest child. I was so upset at myself to learn last weekend that she really did not have a good coat for her to take to school. I have been having her use a fleece jacket under a “thin” coat for the past week. I am so excited that I was able to find her a pink and purple coat at JCP tonight. I also purchased Matt a pair of jeans. Using coupons and reward points from our purchase of new sheets. I spent a total of $13.83 on both of these items. The sad part is that $8.95 was shipping.
- Our new bed, King size, is scheduled to arrive next Tuesday. I am so excited as we designed our bedroom around a King size bed but were so tired of sleeping on an air mattress that we purchased the Queen size one about 4 years ago. We are doing a major furniture sway next week. Lily is getting our bed, Kendall is getting Lily’s full size bed and Zach is getting a twin bed. Everyone has new sheet and comforters so I will be posting pictures next week.
- Tomorrow is Lily’s first cheerleading competition of the year. I am excited but not excited at the same time. It is a big time consuming task once this season starts. Kendall’s teams is very young and probably will not compete until February or March if at all. We packed both our cheer bags tonight and will be leaving bright and early in the morning.
- Amanda is taking Zach to the Monster Truck show tonight. I really don’t know who was more excited Amanda or Zach. She has been sending me pictures all night and I will share more later, but this is a good end.
















