This year has been a real struggle for us especially in the area of finances. It has brought many changes both expect and unexpected, however I can honestly report two things. First and foremost, we have experience and have no doubt that God is in control. Second, I have learned more about my spending habits then I thought was possible.

One of the goals that I set at the first of the year was to be debt free except for our mortgage by the end of December. My logic behind this was that I knew Matt would no longer be receiving a steady income and I wanted to adjust our budget so that we could keep even for at least the remaining two years that Matt will be at home full-time.  I  don’t expect that we will be meeting this goal this year. However I am not disappointed at all. During the month of December, we have made HUGE steps in this area!  I had previously mentioned that Matt would be receiving his pension from Ecolab this month. That has occurred. We decided to use this to get us set up on the Dave Ramsey- debt free plan. How this looks for our family may be different that what you expect but I am excited to see things moving in the right direction.

First, I can honestly say that we have a budget that is very specific and doable. I have added many categories to my previous budget to include things like car insurance, clothing, hair and gifts. I know that this is going to take work over the next year to first of all stick to the budget but I can see things starting to change! That feels so awesome that I want to continue on this path even if it means not going out to eat or spending  less on gifts!  Along the same lines, I have begun using the envelope system to track both our grocery budget and gas budgets. I had resisted this in the past due to using cash to pay for gas is now a big ole headache. I was able to find a free app on my IPhone that has made this a breeze!  I can easily add money and just as easily subtract with each transaction. At a glance, I can tell how much is left in each of these categories!  It also make spending the money more difficult for me because I have to decide where I am going to subtract from and seeing it in front of me makes this more difficult. Next, we are making progress on the “Baby Step” that Dave Ramsey uses.  Our Emergency Fund is considered fully funded with $1000. I do plan to make regular additions to this fund for the next several year until it reaches $10,000 but baby steps allows us to accomplish things quickly so we will want to continue. Baby Step #2 is to create a “Debt Snowball”.  I have created a list of all outstanding debt that we have except for our mortgage, currently that number stands at just over $8000 consisting of 12 items.  We have been able to pay off 3 of the smaller medical bills and see a blank hole is also very motivating as well.

My goal that I am working toward currently is to pay off 2 more items on  our debt snowball list. Due to our very tight budget for next year, it is not truly a debt snowball where elimination of each debt adds additional money to pay of the next debt. This simply does not work currently for us because we have not been making consistent payments on the majority of these debts but the idea of paying the smaller debt first is working and again very motivating.

I have been very honest and use real numbers for this update, I hope it helps encourage and/or motivate you!

Blogging:  This makes the 13th post of the month. I did not blog even once on our trip so that is the reason that I am 2 post short of for the month. Christmas is my favorite time of the year and with Lily’s birthday also I should be able to meet my goal in December.

Goal: 15 per month

Devotions: Staying on track!  Now to decide on a plan for next year. GOAL MET!

Goal is 3 a week.

Groceries: Because of the traveling we did this month I reduced the budget to 500. I am still way under budget at $240 for the month! I am so excited!  Our average per month spending is $712. I am planning to reduce this to $600 starting in January! 5th month for GOAL MET!

Grocery Budget is set at $800 per month, this includes diapers, cleaning supplies, food and toiletries.

Financially:God answered prayer. We have learned that Matt will be receiving a pension payment December 1st. This will place us in a much more stable financial position as well as allow us to pay off several credit cards. I will share what we are able to accomplish with this after it happens.  I will post more after this is complete but for the month of November we stayed on track.!

Goal: To be Debt free except for mortgage by the end of the year. This was established prior to our learning of the significant financial changes that are occurring so I am trusting God to provide direction in this area. Currently we are focused on meeting budget each month!

Weight: I have continued to exercise at least 1x a week. UGGHHHH

Goal to exercise 3x a week and to be down to 150 by December by losing around 4 # a month.

November was a good month overall and travelling and staying on budget definitely made it better.