Thankful Thursday

This has been a long week for me. I know that my life and circumstance is no where as near difficult as some around me but some days I just want to feel sorry for myself. But instead today I am going to list all the things that I am thankful for this week.

  1. Kendall is the only one who has pink eye. She is definitely on the mend as well as she returned to school today.
  2. Rugar, our dog is alive and much better today. On Wednesday morning, early, we were awoken to his cries of pain. I was very much afraid that he was not going to live. After much prayer and a trip to my parents, he is back to his usual self today.
  3. I only bruised my hand when tripping up the stairs yesterday.
  4. A job that allows me a set day off during the week, and the ability to take sick time on a short notice.
  5. A library visit today with Zach, although I did not find the book I was looking for, I did find and am half finished with a book that I needed to read.
  6. A warm house and plenty of food to chose from.
  7. A third grader who enjoys doing her homework and only needs me to sign the paperwork.

Planning Ahead- How I Spend Time on Sunday Afternoon

We live a very busy life. Our “normal” schedule includes four night of extra activities a week, in addition since August, I have been working till 5:30 at least 3 if not 4 nights a week. In the mornings, I enjoying taking the girls to school and try to get out the door in time for me to have 15 minutes for my devotional time once I get to work. So I am going to share with you, a couple of time and money saving tips that make our weeks at least a little more smoother.

First is the clothing issue, both Kendall and Lily have every strong opinions about school clothes. On Sunday afternoons, our first chore is to pick out clothes for the week. This is a process as each outfit has to be approved by me. Today, we finished quickly in less than 30 minutes. After we pick out each outfit, it is placed in my room or closet so that there are no “last minute” changes during the week. I offer suggestion and even let the girls decided which day they are wearing each outfit.  I have my required scrub uniform with optional undershirt. I try to wash these on Saturday so that I can just grab and go during the week.

Next is food, this school year both Lily and Kendall are required to take a snack for each school day. Lily is also allowed to bring a bottle of water.  I do keep a small stock of easy to grab items such as Rice Krispy treats and fruit roll up. However, both the girls like to take other things such as popcorn or even chocolate pudding. We pick out the items they want to take for the week and pack it in their bookbags. This is especially important so they can always grab out a snack and one less item on my list.

Finally are lunches. We allow both girls to pack 2-3 times a week depending on the menu. The first step of this process is we print a monthly lunch menu, each girl then reads and circle what items they will be eating or writes pack. No matter what day of the week they chose to pack on we prepare ahead on Sundays. I purchased two years ago “lunch boxes” they are plastic containers with 3 separate areas, the down side is that they will leak but they is usually not a problem. The girls pick what they want in their lunches and it is pack. The “finished” box sets in the fridge until the morning they are packing. We have discovered several easy and favorite meals, they include:
Sandwich sushi- this is a tortilla with meat, cheese and mayo rolled and sliced into bite size pieces.
Toasted peanut butter and jelly sandwiches- by toasting the bread it stays fresh for the week.
Chicken nuggets- Think lunchable on this one.  I go ahead and fry the chicken nugget on Sunday, place in a container with ketchup or other dipping sauce. This is Kendall’s favorite and she has never complained about it being cold.
Pickles – I cut these to fit in one container.
Carrots and Ranch dressing.
Tomatoes and/or green peppers- this was a favorite during August when we had lots of tomatoes in the garden.
Graham crackers with nutella to dip in.
Applesauce, jello or pudding- I usually pick one of these and mix up a batch. One box of either jello or pudding fits perfectly into 4 of the small compartments. I pour each into the compartment and set in the fridge, it doesn’t spill because it has  settled prior to going in the lunch bag.  This is a huge money saver as I can make a box of pudding for less than a dollar compared to a pre-packaged 4 pack for around $1.50. The girls also enjoy having a choice each week.
Cheese and crackers- either American slices or cheese sticks depending on what is available.

I also take my lunch most days, I can pack with the girls but I usually grab a dinner plate that is made from left-overs, because I can use a microwave at work. Other days I have a soup stash at work.

Do you have an easy lunch idea to add?

Lily’s Birthday

Lily’s 8th birthday was yesterday and since this is the year of no birthday parties, we have been celebrating for two days.  Yesterday, both Amanda and Haley surprised her at lunch at school, then Matt took cupcakes for a special snack to her class.  Last night after work, we had pizza with her BFF family and cake. My parents joined us for the cake as did Amanda and Haley.

After the ice cream cake, Izzy( BFF) and Amanda both spent the night.  This morning, Haley arrived bright and early and we all set out for Disney on Ice! It was awesome as usual but the pictures are just plain bad. Everyone enjoyed the show.

We ended the day at Olive Garden.  It was a great day of all 7 of us together with no drama and lots of excellent memories!

 

Thursday-Budget Post 12/05/2013

I was able to cross several items off my to do list today including establishing and resetting our budget. For the month of December, the focus will be on staying on track so that we can end the year “even”.  I have made some major allowances for eating out and a couple more gifts that I need to purchase.  I am most disappointed that I did not get an emergency fund in place but it will be a in place next year!

Several major changes will be occurring a couple of highlights are:
budget will be based on two checks a month, and will include Matt’s steady income. In January and July, I will receive an extra check which will be used to pay for vacations and extras.
eliminated the “auto fund” instead small repairs, oil changes, taxes will come out of the gas budget. At the end of each month, any amount left in the gas fund will be transferred to the second account for more majority car repairs or saved.
added dinning out envelope this will allow us to eat out once a month or if we are careful twice a month. The plan is to add to this account with extra money that is found or left from the previous month grocery fund. This is a cash only envelope which is harder for us to spend. Grocery budget will remain at $600 a month as this is our average for the year!
hair fund has been moved to a cash only envelope. This will also be the “petty cash” if needed!

In April or before if we can pay off the Home Depot card, that payment will be transferred to our emergency fund.  I know that it will take several years but I plan to leave this as a regular schedule payment until $5000 is in the account!

I am excited that we are on the right track and I think we are in a good position to succeed this next year!

 

Best Laid Christmas Plans!

At the start of last week, I was excited, in my mind, I had a list of things to accomplish over the holiday weekend which would have me well prepared for December.  So the best laid plans have now been way scattered. First Lily was sick on Monday and stayed home from school. Next Matt became sick on Wednesday and pretty much was out of commission till Friday. Finally, the Christmas tree that I was so excited to arrive on Thanksgiving morning and even comment how much fun and easy it was to decorate has fallen twice now!  Which resulted in late night re-decorating and cleaning.

Third time decorated!

Third time decorated!

So now I have a list of things that I need to get caught up on prior to Lily’s Birthday, which is Friday.  Here is the short version:
1. Complete and order 3 photo gifts including a calendar for my dad!
2. Seal, address and send Christmas cards.
3. Wrap all presents so that we can use my closet again!
4. Complete decorations outside.
5. Complete Christmas shopping, luckily this involves only 1 more present besides the photo gifts.
6. Ship gifts to family out of state.
7. Budget for December as well as a new system budget for next year!  I may be able to postpone the new budget another week as I am sure this is more brain power than I have left.

Matt has graciously agreed to take over the house cleaning this week so that it is presentable for Lily’s party but I still need to order tickets for Disney on Ice on Saturday!

Moving Rooms-Remodeling on the cheap!

The  old master bedroom has seen it’s fair share of updating and painting. Prior to her senior year, Haley decided to paint it a bright blue and pic, (check it out). The other big change came in 2010 when we pulled up the carpet and placed a laminate floor down. At the time, we chose a cheap laminate with the idea that in about 5 plus years we would need to update and replace. However in less than three this is what the floor looked like…

Part of the problem was a cat with a major behavioral issue but I firmly believe that the majority of the problem was the quality of the laminate.

With Haley’s decision to move to her father’s, we knew we would need to replace the floor prior to Lily moving into that room. So that is what we have been working on the last several days. I am very pleased with the result. In total we spent $500 for a new toilet, paint for the half bath that is attached and new flooring for bedroom, walk in closet and half bath. This is a vinyl laminate that is self adhesive. It took us about 4 hours to lay the floor and that included the mandatory breaks that occur with three children in the house.